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What happens when two sex educators get together and geek out? You get this spanking new episode featuring Bex Caputo from the Dildorks podcast. If ever there was an episode that covered all the things, it’s this one. We talk about piss play and watersports. We giggle over fisting. We talk about kitten play and […]
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This week it’s you and me and all your emails. But before I answer your questions, let’s talk about the Seattle Erotic Film Festival and Dan Savage’s HUMP! Festival, both of which I attended this week. The Seattle Erotic Film Festival had a lot of films that really weren’t my cup of tea. Which is […]
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What happens when you get a herpes diagnosis? And more importantly, what happens if you begin hiding that you have herpes? Dr. Sheila Loanzon, an OBGYN who gives amazing PAP smears, is here to talk about her very personal story and new book, “Yes, I Have Herpes.” From advice on how to deal to details […]
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How can you thrive as a sex worker, navigating the fact that you have no real safety while also performing erotic fantasies and sex at the same time? How can you care for yourself as clients bring in their pain, shame, and fear and expect you to heal them? Lola Davina is here to help […]
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Guess what? Christopher Zeischegg is here this week. You may know him as porn performer Danny Wylde. I had a chance to read his book, “The Wolves that Live in Skin and Space,” and we talk all about his writing, the horror genre, leaving porn, bi-phobia within the porn world, why he’s grateful to be […]
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This week it’s you and me and all your emails. Let’s dive in. Ariyanna wrote in about how the show changed her life. Coleman, too! Yay for learning from this show. Jess needs help finding BDSM porn that isn’t extreme or just about the fucking. She wants sensual, intimate, connected porn that is also kinky. […]
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I wanted to open this week’s episode with a note about racism and white supremacy in light of the Charlottesville crap that’s recently unfolded. I mentioned a bunch of places where you can donate money to help fight racism and support the folks on the ground doing the work. Find them here and here. On […]
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Riley J Dennis is someone I’ve been watching on YouTube for a little while and completely admiring. I adore her passion for anti-oppressive work, talking about feminism, politics, sex, trans issues, and a bunch more. So, I decided to reach out and invite her on the show. When she said yes, I immediately went to […]
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Guess who’s here this week? Cooper S. Beckett from Life on the Swingset. It’s been 2 years since he was on the show, way back when Dylan was still here, so it’s wonderful to catch up and hear about his latest adventures. We geek out about live sex demos and the Swingset takeover at Desire […]
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Zena Sharman, editor of “The Remedy: Queer and Trans Voices on Health and Health Care,” is here talking about queer and trans health issues, community-based care, and oppression within the medical community. We geek out about trauma-informed care and talk about why cis straight men are really suffering inside these systems, too, based on the statistics. […]
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I know tons of you are either kink lovers or kink curious, so I have a feeling you’re going to enjoy this chat with rope expert and rope love Emily Bingham. She recently published an erotic memoir all about her kinky, erotic bondage adventures. It is SUPER hot. So in this episode we talk about […]
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This week it’s just you and me, working our way through some rad listener questions. It starts with some listener love from an episode I did around the election last year. Sometimes I feel a little nervous to share political stuff – like the oppression episode and the abortion episode, but I trust you to […]
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As for this week’s episode? Amarna Miller is here and we talk all about ethical porn and why it’s different from feminist porn, why she feels so committed to doing mainstream pornography, polyamory, and Iceland. Amarna also shares why she’d rather talk to a group of sexist men than to a group of like-minded feminists […]
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Whew! Let’s dive into this week’s episode because Wendy Strgar is here from Good Clean Love. We’re chatting all about her new book, “Sex That Works,” and we also dive into keeping sexual passion alive in monogamy, cultivating sexual freedom and sexual responsibility, what love and healthy relationships look like, the importance of choosing a […]
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On to this week’s show with Ruby Bouie Johnson, the Black Sex Geek herself. This is an episode entirely about polyamory. It’s raw and funny, and so so real. This is a no-holds-barred chat about the good, the super bad, and the beautiful parts of poly communities. Ruby talks about how polyamory healed her in […]
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