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Sex Gets Real 203: Married & poly, no guilt after an affair, & fear of sex

So what’s up for this episode? AC wants to know where to find a kink expert that might teach at a private party about bondage and flogging. I recommend Fetlife to get started. Drowning in Relationship Theory is so stressed. Her and her husband decided to open their marriage so she could explore her bisexuality. […]

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  • Dawn
  • March 4, 2018

Sex Gets Real 202: Training doctors & moving on after harming someone with Bianca Palmisano

This week, I am joined by the incredible Bianca Palmisano from Intimate Health Consulting. Bianca specializes in training medical doctors, nurses, and staff to be more inclusive when treating marginalized folks, especially around sexuality and gender. So, we go there. We talk about all the ways doctors fail us and the emotional labor we often […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 25, 2018

Sex Gets Real 201: Painful sex, feeling lonely in love, & fearing STIs

So what’s up for this episode? Mary wrote in because she’s have pain during sex. Her doctor didn’t help and she’s seeing a physical therapist for pelvic floor work, but what can she do? I’m not a doctor, but I can share a few resources about painful sex, which is often called dyspareunia for folks who […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 18, 2018

Sex Gets Real 200: Unconventional sex, betrayal, & looking for signs of an orgasm

HAPPY EPISODE 200! So what’s up for this episode? You all have been sending me some TERRIFIC questions lately, and I was eager to dive in. Aussie Gal wrote in from Australia with some love and delight. Satisfied Slippery Slut went to She Bop in Portland after hearing it mentioned on a previous episode and […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 11, 2018

Sex Gets Real 199: Being a survivor & the ethics of sex toys with Sarah Holliday

Formidable Femme, aka Sarah B Holliday, is here this week talking about sex toy companies, the ethics of selling sex toys, rejecting the perfect survivor narrative, healing from trauma, plus we field a listener question about abuse. Sarah is deeply committed to changing the way the sex toy industry operates, and she has loads of […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 4, 2018

Sex Gets Real 198: Long distance BDSM, porn addiction, & abuse in love

Welcome to this week’s episode of listener questions!  First up, Love All of Him sent an update. Find out what happened after they followed my advice and what lead to them having PIV sex for the first time. Leo from Scotland wrote in. He’s had digestive issues for a few years and now his butthole is […]

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  • Dawn
  • January 28, 2018

Sex Gets Real 197: Cavanaugh Quick dives into awkwardness, body language, being a switch, & consent

Talking to other sex educators, researchers, and experts is one of my favorite things in life, especially when the conversations are rich, personal, nuanced, and challenging. I met Cavanaugh Quick through O.School (where we both live stream sex ed for free), and the first time I saw Cavanaugh talk about feminist porn, I knew I […]

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  • Dawn
  • January 21, 2018

Sex Gets Real 196: Luna Matatas on seducing the anus, strap-ons, & sex clubs

What do butt play, pegging the patriarchy, non-sexual Dominance & submission, strap-ons, and sex clubs have in common? Why, Luna Matatas, of course. She is joining me this week to talk about all the delicious, yumminess that is kink and pleasure. As a fellow O.School Pleasure Professional (check out her Fuck Like a Goddess weekly […]

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  • Dawn
  • January 14, 2018

Sex Gets Real 195: Former pro dominatrix Mona Darling on kink, pet play, & orgasm control

Mona Darling is here to talk all things kinky. As a former pro Dominatrix with over 20 years of experience dominating folks in the kinkiest of ways, she has some fantastic advice on how to get started in kink, the skills most people overlook that actually make kink juicy and meaningful, and how to find […]

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  • Dawn
  • January 7, 2018

Sex Gets Real 194: Mono, wanting lots of sex, OK Cupid name change

Happy New Year! This is dropping on New Year’s Eve 2017, so let’s shuffle 2018 in in style. I got myself a gift of a new vibrator. I’ll be reporting back with my thoughts over on Patreon for supporters there.  On to listener questions! A listener wrote in saying her hottest fantasy is having her […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 31, 2017

Sex Gets Real 193: JoEllen Notte on the best of 2017

On to this week’s show! JoEllen Notte is here to talk about her favorite things of 2017, as well as some of the tips and ideas she explored around sex, depression, and resentment. We talk about her love affair with the Doxy wand vibrator, how she decides what makes her Favorite Things list, why we […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 24, 2017

Sex Gets Real 192: Listener questions on orgasms, being gay, sexting, & therapy

Brandon wrote in because he used to find it super hot to spy on girls, like the scene in the movies Porky’s. But now, as a father and adult, he finds it creepy and repulsive. What gives? Kev is lost and needs guidance and acceptance. He thought he was straight, but just started having sex […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 17, 2017

Sex Gets Real 191: Face sitting, cheating, & hating your body

Here’s that funny article I was giggling over called, “20 Things Guys Have Actually Said to Me In Bed.” Now, on to your questions. Brittany wrote in seeking sexy kink events near her. The best place to go for kink events is Fetlife.com. You’ll want to keep an eye out for munches and conferences. Because […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 10, 2017

Sex Gets Real 190: Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg on kink & changing bodies

I am so excited. CrashPad Series is sponsoring the Explore More Summit: Bodies Edition AND they sent me an exclusive audio clip of April Flores and Milcah filming a recent scene. You can hear the juicy details in the show this week. HEAR THE PORN! If you want to hear more from April about porn and […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 3, 2017

Sex Gets Real 189: Urban Tantra with Barbara Carrellas

I am so excited. CrashPad Series is sponsoring the Explore More Summit: Bodies Edition AND they sent me an exclusive audio clip of April Flores and Milcah filming a recent scene. You can hear the juicy details in the show this week. HEAR THE PORN! If you want to hear more from April about porn and […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 26, 2017
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