Sex Gets Real HIQI 97

That fits where?

It all starts with an article about modesty and how women should expect to be treated poorly based on what they wear. You know Dawn can’t let that go. So, let’s put on our ranty pants and rage against the sexist notion that what you wear has anything to do with your value, intelligence, or ability.

Then, we jump into a fun question from a listener who thinks she wants to try her fantasy. What is it? Fisting!

We talk about lube and gloves and communication, plus why mainstream porn is NOT the place to go if you want to learn what it’s about.

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Episode breakdown

  • 0:40 – Who doesn’t love starting an episode with a Dawn rant?
  • 0:48 – Dawn read a horrible article that was really sexist and gross about what women should wear.
  • 1:07 – What a woman wears has nothing to do with respecting her or with her intelligence or abilities. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a misogynistic pig. Period.
  • 1:27 – Dylan has to laugh because it sounds like something her wife would wear.
  • 1:51 – For some people, modesty feels sexy and natural. For others, showing more of their body feels sexy and natural. It’s your body.
  • 2:40 – You can’t tell someone what to do with their body. Just no.
  • 3:28 – Moose knuckles.
  • 3:45 – They’re fucking nipples.
  • 5:30 – An office in Denmark (or someplace overseas) went entirely nude for an entire month, and everyone got their work done and no one had less value, so what the hell America?
  • 6:40 – If you feel powerful in a revealing outfit and you’re effective at your job, then fuck them.
  • 8:30 – Get over yourself and stop policing other people’s bodies.
  • 9:05 – Dawn is SO worked up.
  • 9:23 – Renee wrote in about exploring a fantasy – fisting.
  • 10:06 – Gloves are a great way to start with fisting – it eases the way.
  • 10:32 – Orgasms can help relax a body and make it easier to do the fisting.
  • 11:07 – Everyone’s body is a little different, so not everyone can take a whole fist, where other people can take two. Honor your body and what it’s ready for.
  • 12:24 – Start with one finger and go from there. It’s not nearly as scary as it sounds.
  • 13:49 – The knuckles are the toughest part.
  • 14:30 – Dylan and her wife did some dual fisting with each other. Hot.
  • 15:19 – The connection is so intense when you’re fisting.
  • 17:30 – Part of what makes it hot is all of the checking in and connecting and talking.
  • 18:37 – Do not watch mainstream porn to learn what fisting is like. No.
  • 19:07 – CrashPad has some great fisting scenes that are very realistic and sexy.
  • 21:01 – The person receiving the fist gets to drive everything.

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On this week's episode of the Sex Gets Real podcast, Dawn goes on a rant about revealing clothing and modesty and policing other people's bodies. Then, Dylan jumps in on the fun as we answer a listener question about fisting. Gloves and lube, girl. Gloves and lube.

  • Dawn
  • February 21, 2016