Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 47

Dylan tells a horrifying story of sex toy shopping gone wrong

When Dylan’s friends go to a sex toy store to find a toy for pegging, things go south very quickly. What was supposed to be a fun and sexy bonding experience turned into a creepy experience that includes the words “legitimate rape”.

Dawn, of course, loses her shit and gets all rage-y. Which turns into a fierce conversation about the importance of shopping at female-friendly/queer-friendly, body safe sex boutiques.

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Episode breakdown

  • 0:11 – Story time with Dylan. Sex toy shopping turns horror story.
  • 0:36 – It all starts with a couple who decides to go shopping for a toy so that they can try pegging.
  • 1:21 – Our hero of the story encounters a boundary and lays it on the line.
  • 1:29 – The story’s nemesis, the sex store clerk, casually dismisses him, but it gets worse. So much worse.
  • 1:38 – And then……things get really creepy. Let’s just say it involves the suggestion of rape.
  • 1:45 – *evil laughter by our nemesis*
  • 1:56 – Our hero stands up for himself. “That’s kinda rape, folks.”
  • 2:02 – Uh oh. Two words that send Dawn into a massive rage ball: legitimate rape.
  • 2:33 – What our hero does next is amazing. Which is why he’s the hero.
  • 3:05 – Our hero’s girlfriend sees the seriousness of what happened and apologizes.
  • 3:24 – Men can be raped, too.
  • 3:41 – Dawn loses her words out of anger. There’s just stuttering.
  • 4:01 – Dawn is happy to report she won’t be going to jail for arson.
  • 4:36 – Traditional sex stores tend to be bad for all these reasons.
  • 5:26 – Boundaries. Respect them ALWAYS. No exceptions.
  • 7:04 – That shit is unacceptable.
  • 8:40 – The receiver/bottom/submissive sets the speed and the tone. It’s their body. THE END.
  • 9:29 – Healthy relationships leave room for failures and growth and taking responsibility when mistakes get made.
  • 10:29 – It takes courage to try something new as a couple.
  • 11:29 – We forbid our listeners from behaving this way.
  • 12:22 – Listeners – what are your sex toy shopping horror stories?
  • 14:13 – Body safe toys are the only way to go.
  • 15:50 – Dawn tells a creepy story about a store where she almost got kidnapped. Yikes.

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On this week's episode of Sex Gets Real, Dylan tells a horror story about sex toy shopping and what happens when the store employee tells someone to commit rape. Oh hell no.

  • Dawn
  • February 22, 2015