Sex Gets Real: Episode 42

Dildo etiquette, cock confidence, and a sweepstakes to win a prize in celebration of our one-year anniversary!

Dylan talks about being a total sexist at a motorcycle show.

A listener wants to know where to go for classes on sex and BDSM. We suggest starting with Kink Academy and their 1,500 videos with some of the best sex and kink educators in the world. For conferences, there’s Dark Odyssey, Catalyst Con, and Camp Crucible (this link is to Barbara Carrellas’ page – she links to the event, but the event details aren’t published yet).

And for all things BDSM, check out The BDSM Events Page or BDSM Events Calendar.

Dawn and Dylan also discuss dildo etiquette, female condoms, how to find your strap-on cock confidence, and Pornhub’s new report, which Bustle reviewed in detail here.

Be sure to listen to the end for a random and exciting update from Dawn on a sweepstakes that starts next week for our U.S. listeners. We are celebrating our one-year anniversary by making one of you the lucky owner of a free copy of Violet Blue’s “The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy“, and it will be signed by Dawn and Dylan!

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Episode breakdown

  • 1:47 – A listener asks us to check out DILFs of Disneyland on Instagram.
  • 3:06 – It might be sexist and wrong, but that’s not stopping Dawn.
  • 4:00 – Ah, lesbians and the advantages they have when they’re players.
  • 4:48 – Being cruised by a lesbian versus a guy and why it’s better.
  • 6:46 – Lesbionic advantages!
  • 7:54 – A listener wonders if Dawn met Bill Cosby back in the day.
  • 9:00 – Where do you start if you want classes on sex and BDSM? Check out the resources above, and also check out the Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle, WA; Lotus Blooms in Alexandria, VA; and She Bop in Portland, OR.
  • 11:38 – We love Kink Academy.
  • 12:36 – What has us talking about needles and knives and rope bondage and Dominance and submission?
  • 15:06 – All BDSM, all the time.
  • 19:28 – Damn, there are a lot of kinky options out there for the wild and the curious.
  • 20:29 – Cooper Beckett from My Life on the Swingset hits us up.
  • 21:15 – A handbook for threesomes!
  • 22:41 – Here’s that video by The Onion on open relationships. Offensively awesome.
  • 23:39 – Dildo etiquette.
  • 24:37 – Should we demand guys get a new penis for every new lover?
  • 25:54 – Dildos in the dishwasher.
  • 27:11 – We won’t ever stop loving on the female condom. It is magical. Like unicorns.
  • 29:06 – Multiple partners in your bed? Here’s how to have safe sex with them and play them like a xylophone.
  • 31:16 – …and then Dawn would be racing out the door.
  • 32:31 – My pussy eats condoms.
  • 33:38 – Let’s talk strap-on headspace and getting cock confident.
  • 40:33 – A new movie called Two Night Stand, according to Dylan.
  • 42:13 – You must do After Action Reports, people, if you want great sex.
  • 43:58 – Bustle share’s Pornhub’s analysis on porn behavior from around the world.
  • 50:33 – What is Dylan’s new porn obsession?

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In episode 27 of Sex Gets Real, Dawn and Dylan explore Dylan's sexist behavior at a motorcycle show, dildo etiquette for lesbians with a new girlfriend, where to find sex and BDSM classes, female condoms and how awesome they are, finding your cock confidence when you're strapping it on, pornhub's new report on porn usage, and we have a new sweepstakes starting next week for our one-year anniversary!

  • Dawn
  • January 18, 2015