Sex Gets Real: Episode 40

On this week’s episode we’ve got NRE pitfalls, a couple seeks a third, fisting, and more

Wow! Happy New Year to all of you. You sent us so many great stories and questions, we filled up an entire hour this week!

It all starts with a listener who shares a few examples of some public sex adventures he has had with the wife. Plus, another listener tells us why arousal pills and hot co-workers don’t mix.

A new listener went back and listened to our previous episodes and loaded us up with great questions on jealousy, ending a relationship that’s at the height of NRE, and wants to know how Dawn and Dylan met.

A couple is getting more adventurous and wants to know how they can safely find a 3rd for a threesome when they visit a nude resort and whether they should have a foursome with a couple they know.

Plus, questions on precum and Dawn talks about her latest adventures (it involves fisting and pegging).

Dylan also mentioned a new body-safe lube that she is loving called Aloe Cadabra. Want to check it out? We have an affiliate link on Amazon here (that means if you buy from this page we get a little love from the seller – but it’s not on Amazon Prime which is a bummer): Aloe Cadabra.

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Episode breakdown

  • 0:42 – Find out what Dawn and Dylan did for the new year. Wild times.
  • 1:34 – Who knew about red panties on New Year’s? Dawn missed out.
  • 3:30 – Penguins. Enough said.
  • 4:16 – Listener Joe calls in and tells a few stories about having sex in public with his wife.
  • 7:41 – Why Dylan says it’s not so easy for her and the wife to do public sex.
  • 9:21 – When a new listener goes back and checks out episode 11, she has a new perspective on a little issue between Dylan’s wife and a co-worker.
  • 11:13 – What happens when a relationship ends at the height of NRE (new relationship energy)? Dawn and Dylan talk about their experiences with heartbreak.
  • 19:06 – Did you hear what we’ll be talking about on next week’s episode? Special thanks to Shannon for the great question that earned it’s own episode.
  • 19:23 – What should a couple do if they’re getting ready to go to a nude resort and want to try a threesome and they also have some friends who might be up for a foursome?
  • 21:55 – Did someone say we’re facilitating unimaginably hot sex ALL OVER THE WORLD? Yes. They did.
  • 24:33 – Dylan tells about spontaneous group sex from her past.
  • 26:58 – If you find someone you’re interested in for a threesome, what should you and your partner do to prep?
  • 28:22 – Do you have a word for when things start to go south? Like tangerine. Don’t laugh – DYLAN.
  • 34:06 – If group sex just really isn’t working, Dawn says to do this to salvage the scene.
  • 24:26 – Oh lord. Dylan starts orchestrating a foursome in her mind and gives us the deets.
  • 35:48 – “Cum ropes” reminds one of our listeners of a certain movie…and then Dawn grosses Dylan out big time.
  • 36:54 – Listener David takes an arousal pill and has a little issue at the office the following day. Let’s say erections and coworkers don’t mix. BONER!
  • 39:35 – Dylan’s friend grinds his dick on her in a dance club, and Dawn talks about having an anonymous encounter at a rave.
  • 42:01 – Precum. What is it? Why does it taste different? And why do some guys precum more than others?
  • 48:41 – Dylan and the wife tossed out the bad lube and tried Aloecadabra based on a recommendation from a listener. She reports back.
  • 50:33 – Dawn visits her lover in Canada and experiences a first. Fisting. And there’s bondage and lube and all sorts of other shenanigans.

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On this week's episode of the podcast, Dawn and Dylan answer tons of listener questions and share stories on public sex, arousal pills, threesomes and foursomes, jealousy, breakups, precum, fisting, pegging, lube, and so much more.

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  • January 4, 2015