Sex Gets Real: Episode 36

Pain, fear, consent, rape, and all things edgy. Not for the faint of heart.

Ready for an edgy episode? Dawn and Dylan deliver with this practical and informative interview with BDSM educator and sadist Frozen Meursault.

FM fields questions from listeners on pain and fear, consent, rape fantasies, and rough body play. His framework for consent is something Dawn has repeatedly referenced on the show – that consent is only present if it is voluntary, enthusiastic, informed, and on-going.

For educational videos and articles on BDSM, rough play, and safety, check out:

Kink Academy by Princess Kali,, and Stefanos and Shay (they also have a Remedial Ropes website if you’re looking to learn about rope bondage safety).

Frozen Meursault’s hand-out from his rough body play class is here, but visit his site for other articles, too.

Finally, the study he mentions on rape fantasies? It’s right here.

If you’d like to join Frozen Meursault at an upcoming event, here are a few of them (Fetlife posts do require a Fetlife profile):

Upcoming Events:
Winter Wickedness
2/6/2015 – 2/7/2015
Central Ohio

Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire
2/13/2015 – 2/16/2015
Washington DC

Rigger’s Delight (Featuring Aeolis_Est, KinkyKittyPlayKat, Murphy Blue, Lee Harrington, Peter Slemrian)
2/27/2015 – 3/1/2015

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  • Dawn
  • December 7, 2014