If you’re looking for a unique way to kick of 2018, check out all of my online workshops and DIY goodies. They can make amazing gifts and they’re all around $5-30 each. Pop over and see what’s available now.
Happy New Year! This is dropping on New Year’s Eve 2017, so let’s shuffle 2018 in in style. I got myself a gift of a new vibrator. I’ll be reporting back with my thoughts over on Patreon for supporters there. You can support the show, too!
I’m also live streaming on O.School Wednesday, January 3rd at 6pm all about Black Mirror. If you love Black Mirror, tune in (it’s free) and geek out with me about the future of technology and love.
On to listener questions!
A listener wrote in saying her hottest fantasy is having her boyfriend fuck another woman. But, there’s a catch. She is super jealous and doesn’t think she can handle it in real life. What can she do? Patreon supporters Cadessa and Seductive Verse have lovely advice about taking it in stages, and then I add on my thoughts.
Sometimes fantasies are just that – fantasies. Ideas and scenes meant to fuel our arousal and desire. If we want to make our fantasies into a reality, we can do that slowly and with lots of support, especially if we’re scared.
Hungry for Cock wrote in. She’s in a monogamous relationship of 10 years, but she started cheating 8 months ago with an older man. She had no idea sex could be this good and now she wants sex with everyone she sees. Is that wrong?
Wanting sex is never a problem as long as we’re choosing it for ourselves, but what is a problem is the cheating. It’s time to either open up your relationship or end the relationship before exploring all of the sex you want to be having. Let’s have sex with integrity and ethically – both for ourselves and for the people we have relationships with, even if it’s hook-ups.
Rod wrote in because he’s 37, he’s just started making out with a new partner, and he ended up with mono. How did this happen? How can he talk to this new guy about having mono? And is his sex life over forever?
Mono is super common, especially when we’re younger. Most people have dormant versions of the virus because it’s just that common and spreads from coughs and shared drinks. You can read all about mono at the MayoClinic website.
More importantly we have to be able to talk about these things with partners. If we can’t, we shouldn’t be having these kinds of relationships. So, the most important thing is for Rod to talk to his partner. How? I have thoughts.
Polyamorous Duck has big feelings about OK Cupid’s recent decision to eliminate usernames. I think it’s a mistake and share why.
About Dawn Serra
I am the creator and host of the laughter-filled, no-holds-barred weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real. I lecture at colleges and universities on sex and relationships, too.
When I’m not speaking and teaching, I also work one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire.
But it’s not all work! In my downtime, I can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with my sexy AF husband.
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