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Real sex: One masochist’s journey into pain

I met Snapping Sita at The Crucible in Washington, DC a few weeks ago. She was the demo bottom for Frozen Meursault’s Caning 201 class, which means that as he taught the class about different techniques and ways to use a cane for impact play, he demonstrated the strikes and sensations on her body. Snapping […]

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  • June 2, 2014

What is a Sexual Attitudes Reassessment workshop?

I met Colleen Dunning through an online business program, and we immediately connected. Colleen is stunning in her pursuit of sexuality and self-discovery. She has not only been studying sex and sexuality for a number of years, but she has been through an incredible transformation within her personal relationships. We are excited to have her […]

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  • Dawn
  • May 27, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 10

Porn star Lance Hart – one of the best interviews we’ve ever done Dawn and Dylan talk to the gorgeous and talented Lance Hart, a fetish porn star and producer. He tells us all the dirty secrets behind filming porn, getting started in pegging, and what it’s like to get started in adult films. Want […]

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  • May 25, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 9

Ending things is never easy, but here’s what not to do Dawn and Dylan talk about closure and going crazy post break up. Plus, listeners ask how to overcome exhaustion, why does sex have to be so icky, and what to do if you get fat to prevent yourself from cheating? Plus, Dawn bangs a […]

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  • May 11, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 8

Don’t get butthurt when someone tells you no. Do get excited to find some play partners. Dawn and Dylan dive into the sting of being rejected. Plus, how does a bi-curious woman find ladies to hook-up with? Is female ejaculation real? And why do feminist women have rape fantasies? You know we love hearing from […]

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  • April 27, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 7

It’s all about the enthusiasm, people. Dawn and Dylan lay out how to give amazing blowjobs, the practicalities of navigating an open marriage (where? and how? and when?), and how to get started in kink. Plus, Dawn talks about her butt plug tail. You know we love hearing from you, so here’s how to reach […]

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  • Dawn
  • April 13, 2014

How to fail at approaching me for sex

It’s no secret that I’m on a few sex and kink sites. Shockingly, you can meet interesting, engaging partners on these sites. Of course, you have to weed through dozens (hundreds?) of total tools, but thankfully they make themselves known almost immediately. Heterosexual and bisexual women are in short supply on most sex-oriented websites. As […]

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  • March 31, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 6

Consent is the foundation upon which ALL sex and kink are built. No shortcuts. Or you’re an asshole. Dawn and Dylan discuss what to do if you cross a line or violate someone’s consent. Also, tips on how to let go during sex and how to have a fun, responsible threesome. Kind of. Listen and […]

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  • March 30, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 5

You will never look at a glazed donut the same way again. Dawn and Dylan tackle the delicate art of how to eat pussy like a champ (hint: it involves a bib). Plus, barebacking in the gay community, cock rings, and the worst/best first date ever. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and […]

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  • Dawn
  • March 16, 2014

Learning to grieve – because of a screwdriver

I ended a relationship of seven years last summer. At the time, I was so exhausted from the trying and the counseling and the guilt, I cut the cord without looking back. The moment the words “it’s over” left my lips, relief flooded me. The next month or two was a series of arguments, negotiations, […]

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  • March 2, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 4

Classes on needles and pain processing and rape fantasies and negotiation…it was like heaven. Dawn and Dylan hit up the Dark Odyssey BDSM conference. Hear about all things kinky – from Fist-a-Palooza to orgies to rape play and so much more. Want to learn about Dark Odyssey? They have a few events throughout the year. […]

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  • Dawn
  • March 2, 2014

My first act of submission

His hand wrapped around my throat pulling me against him, as his strong chest granted me strength when I leaned back. He began quietly whispering in my ear, reminding me about our agreement. After a few moments, he asked me for my safe words. Two were required: One for slowing down something that had become […]

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  • March 1, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 3

How to have a bloody good time. And strap-on sex. Dawn and Dylan take on strap on sex, playing during your period, sex work, and whether a man watching porn without having sex with his partner is a major problem or not. Plus, we want your stories about Valentine’s Day! Listen and subscribe to Sex […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 16, 2014

Help! I’m having trouble orgasming

A gorgeous inspiring individual writes: I am 38. I was only with men and then left my husband of nine years at the age of 32 to be with women. I’ve never really had a problem reaching orgasm, and have always been a very sexual creature with a high sex drive. Lately, it’s becoming more […]

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  • February 9, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 2

Communication is the key to every kind of relationship. Get brave and ask. Find out how to talk to a friend in an open relationship about how she does it. What if you want to introduce kink to a super vanilla partner? Plus, the down-low on STDs, and then we ponder just how important self-pleasure […]

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  • Dawn
  • February 2, 2014