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Why coming forward about sexual assault doesn’t “ruin” lives, what to do when you’re deeply ashamed of masturbation, & does loving penises make a straight man gay?…
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Creating community memories of abuse, why giving advice is a double-edged sword, attending ACA meetings, and wanting to cuckquean when you have trauma and no body confidence. This week we kick off by exploring a few interesting posts I came across. One that’s a few years old by Ferrett Steinmetz on the dangers of giving […]
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On to your emails. Mare is struggling because she betrayed her partner. He didn’t want to open their relationship and she did, so she betrayed their agreement and now things are terrible. She feels guilty and ashamed, and wants some thoughts on the whole situation. Anonymous Girl has always considered herself to be straight, but […]
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To get us started, I came across two threads all about love and the simple ways we care for each other. I also want to take some time to share that a porn performer named Rooster has come forward about abuse they experienced on the set of an Erika Lust film by guest director Olympia […]
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This week’s episode is all about you and your questions. First up, there have been updates on #polyamorysmetoo and I wanted to pass those along. The survivor pod shared this update and more stories from women who had relationships with Franklin have come out and you can read them here, here, here, and here. You […]
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This week’s episode is all about you and your questions. I got two follow-up emails, both from people whose questions were featured in episode 271. It was great to hear from both of them, and I share a little about what I hope each of you takes from the answers I offer on this show. […]
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Before we jump into my conversation with Tristan, I want to take a few moments to share an important piece called: Dildon’t Disrespect Black Femmes: Our Personal Experiences With Wild Flower Sex Shop This piece, written collectively by Ev’Yan Whitney, Ashleigh, Karmenife, La’Shaunae, VenusCuffs, and Cameron Glover, is an important account of ongoing exploitation and […]
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It’s you and me this week because I have so many amazing questions from you that I wanted to answer a few before next week’s epic episode with Tristan Taormino. So what’s on tap for this week? Teacup Half Full wrote in because she is engaged to an amazing man named George. He makes her […]
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Touch. The erotic. And healing. Chris Maxwell Rose is here from The Pleasure Mechanics and we geek out about touch, changing bodies and how our relationship with the erotic changes over time, touch hunger, and much much more. The Pleasure Mechanics have a bunch of fantastic online courses. A few of the things we discuss […]
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Sinclair Sexsmith and rife are here to talk 24/7 power exchange First up, you can hear me on two podcasts this week talking all about pleasure, bodies, and sex. I chatted with Chris Maxwell Rose of The Pleasure Mechanics all about pleasure, hunger, and the relationship between sex and food. I was also on Rebecca […]
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Welcome to this week’s episode, it’s a very special treat! So, for this week’s episode, in the spirit of treating myself to a vacation and working as little as possible (thank you to the person who emailed me and said I deserve a break – it felt so great to receive that support), this week’s […]
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Welcome to this week’s episode, full of your questions and some thoughts and questions I have in response. First up, a few years ago, Jasmine Kyon wrote an essay about why coming out is not the best option as the child of an immigrant family and how often the coming out narrative is white-centric and […]
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Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My chat with Sinclair Sexsmith and rife got postposed, so this week’s episode is just me and you. First up, I share about three new articles/resources that came across my feed this week. […]
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Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. This week’s episode is just me and you. First, I get on a soapbox about the bullshit that is “straight pride” and how it’s really just like white pride and men’s rights activists. […]
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Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. This week’s episode is just me and you. First up, some updates from the survivor pod around Franklin Veaux and hearing from more of the women. Definitely check out polyamory-metoo.com and Aida Manduley’s […]
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