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Sex Gets Real 277: Cuckqueaning and the dangers of advice

Creating community memories of abuse, why giving advice is a double-edged sword, attending ACA meetings, and wanting to cuckquean when you have trauma and no body confidence. This week we kick off by exploring a few interesting posts I came across. One that’s a few years old by Ferrett Steinmetz on the dangers of giving […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 9, 2019

Sex Gets Real 276: Attachment styles, cheating, & experimenting

On to your emails. Mare is struggling because she betrayed her partner. He didn’t want to open their relationship and she did, so she betrayed their agreement and now things are terrible. She feels guilty and ashamed, and wants some thoughts on the whole situation. Anonymous Girl has always considered herself to be straight, but […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 2, 2019

Sex Gets Real 275: Abuse in feminist port, finding body trust, and love stories

To get us started, I came across two threads all about love and the simple ways we care for each other. I also want to take some time to share that a porn performer named Rooster has come forward about abuse they experienced on the set of an Erika Lust film by guest director Olympia […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 27, 2019

Sex Gets Real 274: Changing orgasms, dungeon etiquette, & codependency

This week’s episode is all about you and your questions. First up, there have been updates on #polyamorysmetoo and I wanted to pass those along. The survivor pod shared this update and more stories from women who had relationships with Franklin have come out and you can read them here, here, here, and here. You […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 19, 2019

Sex Gets Real 273: Crushing on a co-worker, book recommendations, & trouble speaking up

This week’s episode is all about you and your questions. I got two follow-up emails, both from people whose questions were featured in episode 271. It was great to hear from both of them, and I share a little about what I hope each of you takes from the answers I offer on this show. […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 11, 2019

Sex Gets Real 272: Tristan Taormino on growing up, changing bodies, & whiteness

Before we jump into my conversation with Tristan, I want to take a few moments to share an important piece called: Dildon’t Disrespect Black Femmes: Our Personal Experiences With Wild Flower Sex Shop This piece, written collectively by Ev’Yan Whitney, Ashleigh, Karmenife, La’Shaunae, VenusCuffs, and Cameron Glover, is an important account of ongoing exploitation and […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 4, 2019

Sex Gets Real 271: Staying or going when you love two people, hating your vulva, & love across borders

It’s you and me this week because I have so many amazing questions from you that I wanted to answer a few before next week’s epic episode with Tristan Taormino. So what’s on tap for this week? Teacup Half Full wrote in because she is engaged to an amazing man named George. He makes her […]

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  • Dawn
  • July 28, 2019

Sex Gets Real 270: Chris Maxwell Rose on touch and the erotic

Touch. The erotic. And healing. Chris Maxwell Rose is here from The Pleasure Mechanics and we geek out about touch, changing bodies and how our relationship with the erotic changes over time, touch hunger, and much much more. The Pleasure Mechanics have a bunch of fantastic online courses. A few of the things we discuss […]

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  • Dawn
  • July 21, 2019