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Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 19

Today’s letter is ‘K’! Dylan marvels over “pet guys” from Korean soap operas. Basically, submissive men who are shamed by what they do. Plus, Dawn talks about a new pussy exerciser called kGoal. it’s like a Fit Bit for your girl parts. Want to check out the kGoal? Here’s the Kickstarter page. You know we […]

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  • August 10, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 18

Voyeurism at it’s finest and questions about cheating aren’t the only things in this episode. Dawn and Dylan go to a sex & play party in DC and spill the beans on everything that happened (hints: loads and loads of sex). A woman wants to know if texting an old boyfriend is cheating. Plus, what […]

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  • August 3, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 17

We’re buzzing with chatter about sex with electricity. Electricity in the bedroom? Dawn attends a Black Rose class on violet wands and using electricity in the bedroom. Dylan boycotts. Plus, what not to do with electricity and how to scar your penis until it’s broken. You know we love hearing from you, so here’s how […]

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  • July 27, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 16

Have you ever thought about sex after a chronic illness? We hadn’t either. Kait Scalisi of Passion by Kait joins Dawn and Dylan to talk about sex when you or a loved one are dealing with chronic illness. Plus, self-care to feel sexy, lube galore and wet pussies, and passionate monogamy. Find Kait on her […]

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  • July 20, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 15

Fetish – we think that word is overused and explore it a little bit. Can New Relationship Energy be a fetish? What is a fetish, anyway? Plus, Dawn and Dylan talk about getting busted playing doctor as kids. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher […]

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  • July 13, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 14

Open relationships are just the beginning of this wild episode Dawn and Dylan discuss whether a listener should tell her lovers about each other, dig into whether cum facials are degrading and how to get a girlfriend to be more open to the idea, Dawn attends a rope bondage demo, plus – what if your […]

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  • July 6, 2014

Tune up your sex life with the Pleasure Mechanics

Badass sex advice from Charlotte and Chris Rose Did you lose your sex drive? Libido in shambles? Trying to find a way to reconnect with your lover? Allow me to introduce you to Charlotte Rose and her spouse, Chris. They are the masterminds behind Pleasure Mechanics. They are all about erotic touch and practical sex […]

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  • July 5, 2014

When your therapist says you aren’t ready for love

One step forward, two steps sideways. My therapist bummed me out today. Big time. See, in my last serious relationship (which lasted 7 years), I spent most of that time silencing myself for a variety of reasons: fear, self-doubt, a belief that if I wasn’t perfect I’d be unlovable. I was scared to state my […]

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  • July 1, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 13

Our first Hit It and Quit It, plus Dylan’s butt We’ve gone WEEKLY!!! In this short 15-minute episode, hear about Dawn’s craigslist experience that went from finding male models to watching two dudes fuck. Plus, Dylan gets a new butt plug and goes anal on us. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and […]

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  • June 29, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 12

Squirting and blow jobs and being a Domme. Because why not? Dawn and Dylan answer a listener question about obligatory blowjobs. Plus, hear about the g-spot and female ejaculation class Dawn attended in Portland, what it’s like to be a first-time Dominatrix, and the wrong reason to open up a relationship. To read the Reddit […]

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  • June 22, 2014

Sadly Necessary Sex Guides #4: Prepare for Butt Stuff

Sadly Necessary Sex Guides #4? What happened to 1, 2, and 3? Well, dear reader, allow me to introduce you to Mixtape_Heart (that’s his Fetlife handle). He is the man behind the Sadly Necessary Sex Guides, and frankly, I think he wins the interwebs for what you’re about to read about butt love. This is […]

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  • June 21, 2014

Learning how to have tough conversations

Tough conversations. Ugh. Recently, one of my lovers was telling me how much he enjoys his partner being on top during sex. He was excited and sharing sexy thoughts about having a woman pleasure herself while riding him, and instead of getting turned on, I started resisting the conversation. In that moment, I felt myself […]

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  • June 15, 2014

Finding your sacred sexuality with Susana Frioni

The thing I hear the most from women is their struggle to connect with their bodies. Either they don’t know how to let go and settle into intimate moments with their lovers or they are too stressed to feel sexy or they feel shame or they don’t know how to ask for what they want. […]

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  • June 14, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 11

Dawn and Dylan share some new adventures in their own bedrooms, plus caning (ouch!) Have you ever had a horny high? Dawn discovers a new way to cum (anal!) while Dylan and her wife have a guest in the bedroom. Plus, Dawn’s review of a caning class with FrozenMeursault and SnappingSita, how to make a […]

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  • June 8, 2014

Real sex: One masochist’s journey into pain

I met Snapping Sita at The Crucible in Washington, DC a few weeks ago. She was the demo bottom for Frozen Meursault’s Caning 201 class, which means that as he taught the class about different techniques and ways to use a cane for impact play, he demonstrated the strikes and sensations on her body. Snapping […]

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  • June 2, 2014