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Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 13

Our first Hit It and Quit It, plus Dylan’s butt We’ve gone WEEKLY!!! In this short 15-minute episode, hear about Dawn’s craigslist experience that went from finding male models to watching two dudes fuck. Plus, Dylan gets a new butt plug and goes anal on us. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and […]

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  • June 29, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 12

Squirting and blow jobs and being a Domme. Because why not? Dawn and Dylan answer a listener question about obligatory blowjobs. Plus, hear about the g-spot and female ejaculation class Dawn attended in Portland, what it’s like to be a first-time Dominatrix, and the wrong reason to open up a relationship. To read the Reddit […]

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  • June 22, 2014

Sadly Necessary Sex Guides #4: Prepare for Butt Stuff

Sadly Necessary Sex Guides #4? What happened to 1, 2, and 3? Well, dear reader, allow me to introduce you to Mixtape_Heart (that’s his Fetlife handle). He is the man behind the Sadly Necessary Sex Guides, and frankly, I think he wins the interwebs for what you’re about to read about butt love. This is […]

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  • June 21, 2014

Learning how to have tough conversations

Tough conversations. Ugh. Recently, one of my lovers was telling me how much he enjoys his partner being on top during sex. He was excited and sharing sexy thoughts about having a woman pleasure herself while riding him, and instead of getting turned on, I started resisting the conversation. In that moment, I felt myself […]

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  • June 15, 2014

Finding your sacred sexuality with Susana Frioni

The thing I hear the most from women is their struggle to connect with their bodies. Either they don’t know how to let go and settle into intimate moments with their lovers or they are too stressed to feel sexy or they feel shame or they don’t know how to ask for what they want. […]

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  • June 14, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 11

Dawn and Dylan share some new adventures in their own bedrooms, plus caning (ouch!) Have you ever had a horny high? Dawn discovers a new way to cum (anal!) while Dylan and her wife have a guest in the bedroom. Plus, Dawn’s review of a caning class with FrozenMeursault and SnappingSita, how to make a […]

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  • June 8, 2014

Real sex: One masochist’s journey into pain

I met Snapping Sita at The Crucible in Washington, DC a few weeks ago. She was the demo bottom for Frozen Meursault’s Caning 201 class, which means that as he taught the class about different techniques and ways to use a cane for impact play, he demonstrated the strikes and sensations on her body. Snapping […]

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  • June 2, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 10

Porn star Lance Hart – one of the best interviews we’ve ever done Dawn and Dylan talk to the gorgeous and talented Lance Hart, a fetish porn star and producer. He tells us all the dirty secrets behind filming porn, getting started in pegging, and what it’s like to get started in adult films. Want […]

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  • May 25, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 9

Ending things is never easy, but here’s what not to do Dawn and Dylan talk about closure and going crazy post break up. Plus, listeners ask how to overcome exhaustion, why does sex have to be so icky, and what to do if you get fat to prevent yourself from cheating? Plus, Dawn bangs a […]

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  • May 11, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 8

Don’t get butthurt when someone tells you no. Do get excited to find some play partners. Dawn and Dylan dive into the sting of being rejected. Plus, how does a bi-curious woman find ladies to hook-up with? Is female ejaculation real? And why do feminist women have rape fantasies? You know we love hearing from […]

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  • April 27, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 7

It’s all about the enthusiasm, people. Dawn and Dylan lay out how to give amazing blowjobs, the practicalities of navigating an open marriage (where? and how? and when?), and how to get started in kink. Plus, Dawn talks about her butt plug tail. You know we love hearing from you, so here’s how to reach […]

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  • April 13, 2014

How to fail at approaching me for sex

It’s no secret that I’m on a few sex and kink sites. Shockingly, you can meet interesting, engaging partners on these sites. Of course, you have to weed through dozens (hundreds?) of total tools, but thankfully they make themselves known almost immediately. Heterosexual and bisexual women are in short supply on most sex-oriented websites. As […]

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  • March 31, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 6

Consent is the foundation upon which ALL sex and kink are built. No shortcuts. Or you’re an asshole. Dawn and Dylan discuss what to do if you cross a line or violate someone’s consent. Also, tips on how to let go during sex and how to have a fun, responsible threesome. Kind of. Listen and […]

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  • March 30, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 5

You will never look at a glazed donut the same way again. Dawn and Dylan tackle the delicate art of how to eat pussy like a champ (hint: it involves a bib). Plus, barebacking in the gay community, cock rings, and the worst/best first date ever. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and […]

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  • March 16, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 4

Classes on needles and pain processing and rape fantasies and negotiation…it was like heaven. Dawn and Dylan hit up the Dark Odyssey BDSM conference. Hear about all things kinky – from Fist-a-Palooza to orgies to rape play and so much more. Want to learn about Dark Odyssey? They have a few events throughout the year. […]

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  • March 2, 2014