Sex Gets Real HIQI Episode 95

Butt stuff. It’s all about the butt.

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A listener needs advice on how to get started with anal. He has a new boyfriend, and he’d like to find a way to practice the sex.

So, we talk butt plugs, fingers, dildos, and prostate massagers.

Plus, what’s with the bad anal experiences? Oh, and Dylan thinks she pulled a muscle shoveling all that damn blizzard snow.

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Episode breakdown

  • 0:11 – Yucky and wet, but not in a good way.
  • 0:30 – Thank you to those of you who went to iTunes and left some reviews. If you want to do the same, please click the iTunes link above and join in the fun.
  • 1:33 – A listener wrote in with a question about practicing anal.
  • 2:18 – He is just starting out with anal and he is looking for tips on how to get used to it.
  • 2:44 – Dylan talks about how she got started with anal.
  • 3:00 – Let’s go way way back.
  • 3:42 – Starting with fingers and getting relaxed is super important when you’re doing butt stuff.
  • 4:22 – Starting with butt plugs is a great way to tiptoe into anal play.
  • 4:48 – Dylan loves The Mistress by Vixen Creations for pegging and anal dildo sex.
  • 6:01 – Fingers are a wonderful introduction to anal play.
  • 6:17 – Butt stuff can feel a little weird the first few times.
  • 6:35 – If you or a partner have a prostate, Aneros is one of the most popular prostate massagers. They have lots of models and versions to try out, too. Here is one kind to check out.
  • 7:19 – Lelo’s Billy is a nice anal toy.
  • 7:32 – Invest in a great lube that is silicone or a water-based gel for anal play.
  • 8:23 – Lelo and Lux also make prostate massagers.
  • 8:56 – Dawn talks about bad anal experiences and how that can really stay with you for a long time after.
  • 10:22 – Your body does remember sexual experiences and you may be tensing or tightening if you’ve had not fun experiences. So go slow and take your time.
  • 10:57 – Our listener also asks about ABDLs and furries. Dylan doesn’t know what an ABDL before.
  • 11:41 – There’s definitely community for ABDLs and furries. Check Fetlife if you want to find like-minded folks.
  • 12:22 – Dawn wants cute animal PJs.
  • 13:25 – Think they make them in size fat?
  • 15:36 – Fuck the shovel. Not literally.
  • 16:00 – Dawn pegs the heck out of you-know-who. She has a new toy to try.

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This week on Sex Gets Real, Dawn and Dylan answer a listener question about how to get started with anal sex and butt stuff. We also discuss ABDLs, furries, and snow. The not sexy kind of snow.

  • Dawn
  • February 7, 2016