Sex Gets Real 158: Messy sex, dating obsessed, & jealousy

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NW Mom wrote in with her confession about the mess she’s in with a married man. Can she find her way out? She’s lonely, she just discovered her sexual pleasure after a 20-year marriage, and yet, this amazing man can’t be there for her. He knows it’s not easy on her, so ending things shouldn’t be a shock for him.

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Jenister has a problem. She is bisexual, has anxiety, and wants to explore group sex with her partner. The only problem is she and her boyfriend have had threesomes before to great success. But, she is finding herself feeling super jealous and insecure when they look for potential play partners and she feels terrible. How can she overcome her jealousy and make the group sex fun again?

Also, let’s just honor Jenister’s frustration about telling straight guys that she’s bi – it’s like they assume it means threesomes are automatically in the cards. UGH. NO.

How do we care for ourselves when we feel jealous? How do you make space for meltdowns and insecurity without judging yourself?

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What do you do if your friend is obsessed with having a boyfriend and totally defines their worth based on whether they’re dating someone or not? I have thoughts. We live in a world that tells us we should all be on a quest for relationship, and that our worth is defined by the romantic partners we have. It’s a big box to unpack.

Bree Speed has way too much cum in her life. Her boyfriend shoots everywhere and she is cleaning cum off of everything. Is she the only one in this position? I have big thoughts like why isn’t HE cleaning up his own mess? Why isn’t he doing his laundry and taking care of this?

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About Dawn Serra

Meet the host of Sex Gets Real, Dawn Serra - sex educator, sex and relationship coach, podcaster, and more.Sex is a social skill. I speak it. I write it. I teach it. I help you learn how to develop it.

I am the creator and host of the laughter-filled, no-holds-barred weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real. I lecture at colleges and universities on sex and relationships, too.

When I’m not speaking and teaching, I also work one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire.

But it’s not all work! In my downtime, I can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with my sexy AF husband.

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  • Dawn
  • April 23, 2017