Sex Gets Real Ep 105: Safer sex kits for college kids and vibrator orgasms

An intimate chat with Dawn Serra. Just because.

Dawn woke up and just wanted to have a little chat with you, because you’re amazing.

There’s also a follow-up from a listener who wrote in recently about sex with vibrators.

Plus, a 20-year-old virgin just got her first vibrator and wants help on working on internal orgasms. A mom also has some thoughts on safer sex kits for college kids.

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Episode breakdown

  • 0:12 – Let’s keep it just us this week.
  • 0:40 – I miss Dylan, too.
  • 2:00 – Thank you for being such amazing listeners.
  • 2:46 – Every time an email comes in from the podcast, it feels like Christmas. Keep ’em coming!
  • 3:10 – Lola and I fielding a question from someone who’s girlfriend wanted to use a vibrator on her. Well, that listener wrote back with an update!
  • 4:22 – Riding Solo wrote in – she’s a 20 year old virgin who just took the leap and bought her first vibrator. How can she work on internal orgasms?
  • 5:10 – We want to avoid goal oriented sex and instead focus on pleasure. But that doesn’t mean we can’t be curious and try new things!
  • 6:42 – How does Dawn achieve internal orgasms? Find out!
  • 7:08 – Do you like G-Spot stimulation or cervical stimulation? Very different places inside the vaginal canal.
  • 8:03 – Dawn has a tendency to get off and rush through because vibrators make it easy, so don’t do that. Ha. Try lots of different speeds, scenarios, and teasing with your toy to get to know your body.
  • 9:41 – Getting to know your body can be fun.
  • 9:55 – Deborah Sundahl has a book called “Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot: Not Your Mother’s Orgasm Book” if you want to learn more about g-spots.
  • 11:37 – All vibrators are not created equal. Your body may not enjoy the vibrator you have that tons of other people swear by. That’s normal. Just get a new type of toy that better fits your body.
  • 12:40 – Dawn has to stop saying “we”. Grrrr.
  • 12:53 – Amazing Mom wrote in with a thank you and a story about talking to her college aged daughter about safer sex kits.
  • 14:36 – Having a safer sex kit with you that has gloves, lube, internal condoms, external condoms, and maybe even a small vibe means you have SO MANY OPTIONS for sex and pleasure that don’t have to include intercourse if you don’t want it to.
  • 15:00 – If you want to hear Dawn interview Dan Savage, that talk is being replayed today (April 17th) for 12-hours, so if you are listening now, you can hear it here.
  • 15:42 – Sign-up at if you want to see Reid Mihalko and Karen BK Chan next week. They’re being replayed, too.

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On this week's Hit It and Quit It of Sex Gets Real, Dawn woke up feeling like she just wanted an intimate talk with you. There are also vibrators, orgasms, g-spots, and a mom talking about safer sex kits for college kids. Of course.

  • Dawn
  • April 17, 2016