Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 39

It’s time for a taste test of sex products. It’s awful. That is all. We did it for you and we may die of sex poisoning because of it. Our favorites were the flavor waves condoms by ONE and the caramel body paint by Bijoux. As for the rest, completely and totally horrific. Don’t put […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 28, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 37

Stories about sex are awesome. Advice about sex that shames? Not so much. You know that we are all about everyone living their sexual lives in whatever way makes them happy. We celebrate all sorts of sexual orientations and sexual fantasies and lifestyles. It’s part of what makes sex so beautiful. That’s why Dawn gets […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 14, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 36

Pain, fear, consent, rape, and all things edgy. Not for the faint of heart. Ready for an edgy episode? Dawn and Dylan deliver with this practical and informative interview with BDSM educator and sadist Frozen Meursault. FM fields questions from listeners on pain and fear, consent, rape fantasies, and rough body play. His framework for […]

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  • Dawn
  • December 7, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 35

Hmmm…now where can these kinky exhibitionists have sex? Dawn and Dylan help a listener come up with new places to engage in public sex with his wife. Also, Dawn discovers a phrase for man cum that turns her stomach. And what happens when Dylan does some new landscaping? You know we love hearing from you, […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 30, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 34

An erotica expert on writing and reading sexy scenes Dawn and Dylan interview erotica writer, narrator, editor, and all-round expert Rose Caraway from The Kiss Me Quicks. You can check out her podcast on iTunes here. Rose answers some great questions from our listeners on how to get started writing erotica to getting a reluctant […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 23, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 33

We never get sick of talking about strap-ons and pegging A listener wants to know what kind of harness his wife should get if he wants to get pegged. Plus, how can she get clit stimulation when she’s fucking him? Dawn’s favorite harness is the Spareparts Joque. It’s machine washable, plus-size friendly, and has 2 […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 16, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 32

Dawn is scarred, listeners fuss at us over 69ing, and a new vibrator is in the family A pro Domme weighs in on our advice about fetishes. A sassy listener says she adores 69 (and makes it clear she has a very lucky husband). And, what happens when you catch your parents doing something surprising? […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 9, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 31

With suitcases full of sex toys, we’re surprised they her back in On a recent trip to Toronto, Dawn packed most of her kinky arsenal – from dildos to a flogger, from a dragon tongue whip to her strap-on harness. Find out what happens when her carry-on bag gets flagged by security. In both directions. […]

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  • Dawn
  • November 2, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 30

Group sex and barbies. Just a normal day around Sex Gets Real headquarters. IPCookieMonster, blogger at SlutPhD.com, joins us in the studio for all things threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes. From tips for avoiding mediocre group sex to how to overcome the “lesbian sheep” moment in an FFM threesome (female-female-male), IPCookieMonster keeps us laughing and intrigued. […]

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  • Dawn
  • October 26, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 29

Ssshhhhhh. We’re talking secret identities and sex and a thing called hashing Hashing. Never heard of it? That’s probably because it’s a super secret drinking society for people with a running problem. Secret identities. Copious amounts of booze. Highly sexual names. And, it all ends in a dance party where you just KNOW naughty things […]

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  • Dawn
  • October 19, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 28

Double blow jobs, cheating accusations, and anal sex explorations A listener wants to know if she should make her fantasy of giving her boyfriend a double blow job with her best friend into reality. Dylan gets a new toy called the G Spot Finger Extender by Wet For Her and some Pjur lube. You can […]

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  • Dawn
  • October 12, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 27

Sacred sexuality and tantra – yummy A listener wants to know how to get started with tantra, so Dawn and Dylan discuss Barbara Carrellas’ “Urban Tantra” which is a great introduction and inclusive look at tantra. Yes, you can do it if you’re queer or gay. Yes, tantra can include BDSM and kink. And did […]

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  • Dawn
  • October 5, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 26

We love listener questions and today is about feet and making love and new vibrators and more Who actually likes scissoring? A listener claims it’s worse than 69. But we wonder…is that even possible? A boyfriend just wants to massage his girlfriend’s feet, but she won’t let him. Does he give up? Dawn seems to […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 28, 2014

Sex Gets Real HIQI: Episode 25

It’s time to get personal with that clit and vulva and urethra Dylan and her wife break out the mirrors and flashlights to look at their vulvas, urethras, and more. Plus, how can you tell when someone is fully aroused just by looking at their vulvas? Oh, and have you ever felt your clitoral shaft? […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 21, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 24

Swollen labia, unsafe sex, and “soaking” Dawn has a small issue crop up with her labia (did you know about the Bartholin gland?). Dylan fills us in on what “soaking” is. A listener wants to know the definition of sex. Plus, we see some very unsafe sex at a play party and discuss pussy cleaning […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 14, 2014