Monthly Archives: March 2014

How to fail at approaching me for sex

It’s no secret that I’m on a few sex and kink sites. Shockingly, you can meet interesting, engaging partners on these sites. Of course, you have to weed through dozens (hundreds?) of total tools, but thankfully they make themselves known almost immediately. Heterosexual and bisexual women are in short supply on most sex-oriented websites. As […]

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  • March 31, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 6

Consent is the foundation upon which ALL sex and kink are built. No shortcuts. Or you’re an asshole. Dawn and Dylan discuss what to do if you cross a line or violate someone’s consent. Also, tips on how to let go during sex and how to have a fun, responsible threesome. Kind of. Listen and […]

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  • March 30, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 5

You will never look at a glazed donut the same way again. Dawn and Dylan tackle the delicate art of how to eat pussy like a champ (hint: it involves a bib). Plus, barebacking in the gay community, cock rings, and the worst/best first date ever. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real: Listen and […]

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  • March 16, 2014

Learning to grieve – because of a screwdriver

I ended a relationship of seven years last summer. At the time, I was so exhausted from the trying and the counseling and the guilt, I cut the cord without looking back. The moment the words “it’s over” left my lips, relief flooded me. The next month or two was a series of arguments, negotiations, […]

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  • March 2, 2014

Sex Gets Real: Episode 4

Classes on needles and pain processing and rape fantasies and negotiation…it was like heaven. Dawn and Dylan hit up the Dark Odyssey BDSM conference. Hear about all things kinky – from Fist-a-Palooza to orgies to rape play and so much more. Want to learn about Dark Odyssey? They have a few events throughout the year. […]

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  • March 2, 2014

My first act of submission

His hand wrapped around my throat pulling me against him, as his strong chest granted me strength when I leaned back. He began quietly whispering in my ear, reminding me about our agreement. After a few moments, he asked me for my safe words. Two were required: One for slowing down something that had become […]

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  • March 1, 2014